I’ve been working on the new version of myself, and my brain has now begun to properly grow at the age of thirty. Yes, I am aware, that’s late. I’m extremely intelligent; I just wasn’t able to assimilate information appropriately until the last two years. I’ve shifted even more towards my personal objective of self-discovery. I can see things incredibly clear now.
I realized that none of my exes will ever see this version of myself (THEE BEST Version of Me) or get to know the true me. But you’re significant. Your life is important.
A relationship does not define, who you are. You will have the same, if not better, qualities with the person you are destined to be with. I’m sorry we didn’t work out; if things had gone differently, we could have remained friends.
But never forget that you are wonderful, lovely, and deserving of respect, honesty, self-love, and self-care. I pray that you know I hold no animosity or anger, in my heart towards any of you. But we must move on, from the lessons that we’ve learned, and better ourselves.
When you’re getting to know someone or falling in love, keep in mind that communication is essential. Instead of bombarding someone with the word “I love you” take some time to appreciate the little things in life and feel free from fear or criticism from others because of the person you love. BE YOU! And perhaps you’re more comfortable being single? That’s what I’ve recently discovered, that I actually enjoy being single, because no one can love me better than ME.
I’m taking a break, getting to know me, starting to enjoy the small things that make me happy. Being around people in my community, etc. y’all should give it a try.
I’m sorry once more for how hurt I you. You ALL deserve the best, and I hope you find it!. May the Lord lead you away from darkness and toward the light. Peace be with you.

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